Most of us want to be happier, but it can seem like a nearly impossible task. Where do you start? What do you do? The truth is anyone can easily be happier – it just takes a few small swaps to your daily life.


Check out 10 small swaps you can make to be happier here.


1. Instead of sitting on social media for an hour, do something else. Read, write in a journal, ring or Skype a friend, take a walk, paint – there are endless possibilities.

2. Instead of saying yes to everything, only say yes when you mean it. Don’t feel guilty about saying no – it’s okay to want to be alone sometimes!

3. Instead of seething when you are in a bad mood, speak to someone about your feelings. It will help you to clear you head and focus on a solution.

4. Instead of going to bed whenever you want, set a regular bed time. You will fall to sleep quicker – and your quality of sleep will be better.

5. Instead of ignoring strangers, smile at them. It will improve both of your moods!

6. Instead of forcing friendships, let the bad ones go. Not all friendships are for life – and holding on to bad ones will leave you both feeling guilty and stressed.

7. Instead of being passive-aggressive, be honest about your feelings. It is better to work out problems openly, instead of skirting around the issue.

8. Instead of trying to please everyone, simply try to please the people you love and yourself. It is impossible to keep everyone happy – and trying is exhausting.

9. Instead of being a pessimist, be an optimist. No-one is born one or the other – you choose how you see the world.

10. If the weather is good, swap sitting inside for sitting outside. It will do wonders for your mood, and nature is pretty epic to look at.


What do you think of this list? Do you have any other suggestions? Let me know in the comments!


  1. The Otaku Judge · January 26, 2016

    I probably should pick a bedtime. Most days when I sleep is determined by when I pass out whilst watching something.

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    • The Twentysomething Social Recluse · January 26, 2016

      I do this most nights..although I do try to set a routine haha. Thanks for the comment 🙂

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  2. Isabella · January 27, 2016

    Yes, quality advice:-)

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    • The Twentysomething Social Recluse · January 29, 2016

      Thank you Isabella! X

      Liked by 1 person

      • Isabella · January 29, 2016



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